どんな人といる時間が長いです?

こんな質問をもらいました。

「周りの人達が、ネガティブな人ばかりで、
 とても疲れてしまいますし、
 自分も引きずられるのが嫌なんです。
 どうしたら良いのでしょうか?」

はい。

なかなか、対人関係のやっかいな問題ですね。

つまり、

ネガティブスパイラルにどっぷり浸かっている人が
周りにいる場合は、どうしたらよいのか?

と言うことで、
ちょっと考えてみましょう。

 

今、あなたは、

一緒にいる時間が長い人達は、どんな人でしょうか?

それによって、
あなたの未来は、ほぼ、決まってしまいます。

ネガティブ、後ろ向き、愚痴ばかり、楽をしたい

そう言う人に囲まれているなら、
どうなるか、わかりますよね?

 

当然、その中から抜けださない限り、

結果は、ネガティブな事になるでしょうし、
見えるモノも、後ろ向きでしょう。

行動も、それに準じる事になって、

望んだモノを手にするなんて、
困難な状況になってしまうでしょうね。

 

人は、

周りからかなり影響されますし、
まして、いつも一緒にいる人からの影響は大きいですから、

どういう人が、
一緒にいる時間が多いのかは、

人生の質にとても影響があることになります。

 

ということは?

 

もし、そう言う人達とは違う結果を手にしたいとしたら、

そういう人達の側にはいないで、
自分が目指す方向の人達の側に
いるようにすれば良いわけです。

 

ビジネスで成功したいなら、

ビジネスで成功した人達や、
成功を目指して、
日夜頑張っている人達と一緒にいれば、

彼らと同様の結果が、得やすくなります。

 

幸せでいられるようになりたいなら、

すでに幸せでいる人達や、

前向きに、不平不満を言わずに、
自分の責任として、
人生を生きている人達と、一緒にいれば、

彼らと同様になれていくわけです。

 

難しい話は何もなくて、

 

影響を受ける人は、選べるし、
選ぶべきだと言うことです。

 

あなたが所属している幾つかのグループで、
(会社や、ママ友なども、グループと言えますよね)

あなただけが、前向きに、
幸せな未来を指向しているとしたら、

それは、
その実現は、非常に難しい場所にいることになります。

ネガティブな人といると、
モチベーション下がりまくりですし、

何かチャレンジしようとしても、

「そんなの無理だって、止めておきなよ!」

と、足をひっぱらえる事になってしまいます。

そんな経験無いですか?

でも、

周りの人の多くが、あなたと同様に、
前向きで、幸せな未来を指向しているのなら、
どうでしょうか?

応援してくれるでしょうし、

チャレンジには、

「頑張れ!きっとできる!」と、
言ってくれるでしょう。

モチベーションだって、上がっていきますし、
行動も出来ますよね。

 

続きます..

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